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I know I have!<\/p>\n
Some transitions we can prepare for. Having a baby. Retirement. Moving.<\/p>\n
And then there are those transitions that KNOCK you upside the head. Being suddenly DOWNSIZED or even FIRED from a job. A health crisis that hits you without warning. A spouse who walks in one day and says they don\u2019t want to be married anymore. And, in my case, living in Southern California most of my life, an earthquake literally transition the ground underneath your feet.<\/p>\n
Keep in mind that 3 shifts must take place in any transition<\/strong>: When I think about transition, I think about life\u2014L.I.F.E.<\/strong> Let\u2019s look at that word LIFE for the next few minutes.<\/p>\n L – LET GO<\/u> of your need to know the outcome<\/strong>. Hey, I know it\u2019s scary to let go but practicing present moment awareness stops us from writing a detailed mental screenplay of how things will turn out.<\/p>\n Let go by ditching the what if\u2019s<\/em> because WHAT IF they don\u2019t help you? LET GO of the physical baggage in your life: During your transition, clean out closets and cupboards! Get rid of artwork that doesn\u2019t ignite your soul and clothing that doesn\u2019t make you feel like a rock star. In other words, STREAMLINE your life.<\/p>\n Next, IMAGINE the best version of yourself on the other side of transition<\/strong>. You get to CHOOSE who YOU want to be on the other side of your transition! Nobody else. You have the FINAL SAY over your goals, dreams, and decisions. IMAGINE yourself COURAGEOUS because courage breeds confidence.<\/p>\n Now let\u2019s look at F as in FREE YOURSELF. \u00a0<\/strong>One way to free yourself is by doing what the Italians call Dolce Far niente\u2014the sweetness of doing nothing. <\/u>\u00a0During your transition, take a few moments every day to do absolutely nothing\u2014without guilt and without anxiety\u2014just sit still and breathe!<\/p>\n Another way to Free Yourself is by firing non-supportive people in your life\u2014those who don\u2019t celebrate you or your journey. And then after you fire them, FORTIFY the relationships that are VALUABLE to you, STRENGTHEN your relationship with those who DO celebrate you and your journey.<\/p>\n You Free Yourself by forgiving others<\/u>. \/ This one can be a tough one. I\u2019ve had plenty of practice forgiving, ESPECIALLY family members. My dad grew up with nothing and died at 79 years old with a six-million-dollar estate. My mother died two years later in 2014 but not before she and my sister met secretly behind closed doors with the attorney and stripped me of my co-executor position and essentially robbed me of MY portion of MY dad\u2019s estate.<\/p>\n When I learned of the betrayal it felt like a sucker punch to my gut and a right hook to my jaw. I had stayed home with my kids during their growing up years so I didn\u2019t have some big, fat 401(k) waiting for me during retirement. The inheritance WAS<\/em><\/strong> my retirement. To say I was outraged at the time would be an understatement. My attitude stunk…at first.<\/p>\n But\u2026slowly over time\u2026I CHOSE to transition through the process of forgiveness and finally release an expectation gone terribly wrong. Because you see, transition isn\u2019t just about moving to a new city or starting a new job. It can mean shifting to a new STATE of mind. 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